{"id":2016746,"date":"2025-08-25T14:53:01","date_gmt":"2025-08-25T11:53:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shankysjudaica.com\/?post_type=product&#038;p=2016746"},"modified":"2026-10-25T17:15:18","modified_gmt":"2026-10-25T15:15:18","slug":"10-really-dumb-mistakes-lesson-a-day-4-vol-s-c","status":"publish","type":"product","link":"https:\/\/www.shankysjudaica.com\/en\/product\/10-really-dumb-mistakes-lesson-a-day-4-vol-s-c\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Really Dumb Mistakes &#8211; Lesson A Day 4 vol. s\/c"},"content":{"rendered":"<div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align:left;\">\n<p>The first of its kind: Rabbi Shafier\u2019s monumental best seller, divided into quick, daily lessons<\/p>\n<p>Warning: Every day, thousands of couples suffer from unwelcome surprises in their marriage.<\/p>\n<p>And if you\u2019re the type to desperately want shalom, these curve balls can be especially frustrating. Sound familiar?<\/p>\n<p>Get ready to breathe a deep sigh of relief.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;The 10 Really Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make: A Lesson a Day&quot; is a road map for your marriage, broken down into 146 power-packed lessons. In just 10 minutes a day, you can turn your relationship into an unshakable bond that stands the test of time. Think of it as the Waze for marriage\u2014you\u2019ll spot the usual speed bumps ahead of time and navigate through them with confidence and ease.<\/p>\n<p>Take a glimpse inside if you\u2019re:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Determined to make your marriage unbreakable.<\/li>\n<li>Angry that so many couples crash and burn when just a bit more hadracha could have saved them.<\/li>\n<li>Tired of getting outdated advice from well-meaning relatives (who should probably stay in their own lane).<\/li>\n<li>Scared that something might go wrong in your relationship and you\u2019ll be stuck Googling \u201chow to fix this.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Obsessed with your spouse but low-key losing your mind living with them.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>BETTER SHALOM BAYIS. LESS FIGHTING ABOUT DUMB STUFF.<\/p>\n<p>This isn\u2019t your average \u201cblah-blah-blah\u201d marriage advice book filled with obvious \u2018just be mevater\u2019 tips that make you roll your eyes. A Lesson a Day is your launch pad for creating a deeply fulfilling, joyful marriage- exactly as Hashem intended. Every lesson slides perfectly into your busy life, with practical tips, video links, and fun exercises that take less than 10 minutes. The result? You\u2019ll have less machlokes, a vibrant marriage, and a kesher with your spouse that gets deeper every single day.<\/p>\n<p>Disclaimer: Do not read this book if you\u2019ve never messed up or already know everything because, let\u2019s face it, you hit 21 and already mastered every point of the Mesilas Yesharim, Chovos HaLevovos, and Shas. Honestly, this book would just slow you down!<\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The first of its kind: Rabbi Shafier\u2019s monumental best seller, divided into quick, daily lessons Warning: Every day, thousands of couples suffer from unwelcome surprises in their marriage. 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